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30 Valentine’s Day Disasters As Seen By Waiters

Ah, Valentine’s Day! Supposedly the most romantic day of its first year. However, it drops a whole bunch of stress on our shoulders. Even if we feign we’re above all the consumerism, promotion, and cheesiness. It’s also one the most disaster-prone days of the year, as spate attendants who have assured these disasters firsthand can attest to.

Reddit user Hamsternoir turned to the online community and asked attendants to share these floors firsthand. We bring you some of the very best responses that they are able to attain you chuckle, squirm, and might even help you forestalled a peril or two. Scroll down, enjoy Bored Panda’s interrogation with Hamsternoir, upvote your fave Valentine’s Day calamity legends, and share your own if you have any.

Oh, and check out Bored Panda’s other Valentine’s Day-related berths about design fails, honest cards for unconventional romantics, and what happened when women expected out their mashes.

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I’m not crying! I’m sweating through my sees !!!

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This is a cute story. Having to go somewhere “fancy” on Valentines day is not necessary in my opinion. As long as both parties enjoy one another company, the nutrient, etc, anywhere can be a special for Valentine’s day. Wow, that owner IS a scumbag. Kudos to that awesome server for moving over and above to clear that a rightfully special darknes for the couple.

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Ugh!

According to Hamsternoir, they’d been talking to their other half about some bad Valentine’s day know-hows in the past and this inspired them to turn to Reddit and hear everyone else’s narrations. “Never thought it would take off the room it did, but clearly there’s a lot of legends needing to be told.”

According to the redditor, “Valentine’s Day has always made duets under pressure, especially if the relationship is young.”

“Now, with social media, the pressure to perform seems even higher with people watching, ” they added, spotlight that the pressure to do nostalgic things on Valentine’s day and to discuss the matter with everyone on the internet is bigger now than before. In other statements, when we hear _everybody_ going nuts about Valentine’s Day on social media, we can’t help but want to follow the crowd. It’s a very human instinct.

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Poor guy , no one deserves to have their hopes mashed like that. Kudos to you for being a friend in such dark hour! 😀

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you dogded a missile there!

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Yikes…

Hamsternoir told Bored Panda that there are some things that pairs going on their first year on Valentine’s Day can do to reduce the pressure and to manage their expectations. “Don’t take things too seriously or expect the time to go as it was planned in your head.”

“It’s probably better only getting pizza and a bottle of something and then go out for a appointment that has personal sense like your wedding anniversary, it’ll be cheaper unless you got married on February 14 th! ” Those are some words of knowledge! It’s always better to have lower expectancies and pointing up agreeably stunned than being hyped up and crashing down.

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Free liquors where afforded. – Now that is a happy resolving!

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That happened to my husband with his boss many years ago. They were is necessary to stay in a inn for business and had dinner there that night … valentine’s night. Roses and candles everywhere – though they diminished the waiter’s invitation to illumination the candle on their table.

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A full-on Adult Temper Tantrum

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Meanwhile, PsychCentral has some extra bits of advice for Valentine’s Day. It’s vital that both partners have similar possibilities for this day: if one of you’s crazily in love while the other is just starting to open up, you’re both at different stages of the relationship.

What’s more, you shouldn’t expect your partner to be a completely different person merely because it’s Valentine’s Day. Oh, and if you plan to propose on February the 14 th, stir _absolutely_ sure that they’ll say “yes.” Otherwise, you’ll ruin all Valentine’s Days to come for yourself.

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A greedy man who endangers your life isn’t worth sticking around for. I hope she saw sense and dumped him.

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Uh, yuck. But then again, you can probably safely assume that strong feelings are involved if a guy is THAT anxious.

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What a jerk.

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why would you ask for the same waiter from the time “youve had” with your occasion ?!

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Fine Dining and Chili’s, two terms that should never be used together.

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Wow.

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and?

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GM was a moron. The amount of money they lost by not turning the table was at least as much as they would have lost on a walkout.

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These kind of good gal/ person narrations get lost here near the end, but this was a very kind story.

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Noice dude

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Oh I would’ve affection to pick up that phone call. No Ma’am he’s not out on business he’s actually in prisons for domestic violence. No ma’am not you … his girlfriend. And you’re welcome.”

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Years back, I speak of a gentleman who consume millions of dollars on telephone fornication, then finally influenced the woman to go on a time. To his breathe offend, she told him off. “Then why did she say all those things to me? ” he asked.

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While he nailed the disembark, his form was off — that’ll be at least. 20 off his tally from the reviewers and will cost him the gold medal

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Plot twist: OP is Hannah

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The guy was lucky that the girl didn’t pour the coffee on his head.

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note to myself: never ask the important questions before the dessert 😀

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omg, they’re so young … they have no idea what they want at that age >: -(

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Erm, you forgot to explain why you placed your “hairs-breadth” on fire.

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SO … did she say yes?

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2 days ago

why risking this sh* t? just go on a year with your spouse on v-day? don’t have a f* cking affai in the first place ofc. what do these husband see?( i suspect good-for-nothing …)

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2 days ago

I guess fate wanted them to be together…

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2 days ago

Why the blaze would “youre planning to” a fancy valentine’s dinner only to break up with person? Break-ups are uncomfortable enough by nature, so why would you purposely got something that sets the high expectations for the future of the relationship extra high?

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2 days ago

ouch!

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Good on the owner for being a stand-up guy, good on the poor guy for being a good tipper. May karma find and bless you both.

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I had to look up what a predict reverberating was. It’s basically an involvement to an engagement, is that right?

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had to read that one a few times to get it

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abusive Relationship … i am looking forward to he run from her

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That ending lmao

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2 days ago

that’s awkward

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This is starting to make me sad. Having your trust broken like that, plus your heart. And the teens who gotta identify their mother crying because their own father was an egocentric jerk.

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At least he sacrifices good tips

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That is so gross I don’t know what to say.

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Eww

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It’s crazy how two ppl in the same relationship has completely different knows. One is ready to marry the other while…the other person couldn’t imagine spending the remaining day with the other…sad.

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2 days ago

WHY WOULD YOU TELL SOMEONE THAT YOU DISLOCATED YOUR SHOULDER THAT WAY? “Slipped in the shower” is PLENTY of information. Likewise, there are still few dick moves more dick move than preventing the ring after a accepted proposition. There are cases when you keep the right, sure — if you’re breaking off an engagement because the other person did something REALLY bad, there’s an disagreement that the ring remains yours; same with wedding sounds. If the other person is at fault, some people claim that you keep the ring as a consolation pillage. I don’t know if I agree or not, but I respect its own position. But NOBODY says it’s okay to keep the ring WITHOUT the engagement.

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That is horrifying.

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Took 5 hours to figure out she’s a no show, I would have figured it out after 30 minutes.

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When an addiction is adversely affecting your life, on all the bio-psycho-social heights, you are no longer in control of it; it’s in control of you. It’s obviously time to seek outside professional help.

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Wow. That being said … stress makes people do strange things, and knows that restaurants are stupidly traumatic. I hope the cook is ok now.

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that sucks: I

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Probably a red-hot glass straight-shooting from dish because it was a busy night. Then putting a frozen boozing it can split the glass for whatever reason. It used to happen a lot when I waited tables and bartended. We would be expected to threw frost in the glass to cool it down before including the drink.

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Can’t believe he blamed you.

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Geez. I don’t know how people in the restaurant keep their composure during instants like this.

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Great that she told her.

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I truly hope she intent its relation with him.

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Well alright…

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2 days ago

Ban him instead.

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Well, that’s embarrassing.

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Even person with zero meat work knowledge would know not to ask a couple on V date whether the check is separate or together. She was nuts, but you mostly asked to provide it.

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“ceiling water” lol!

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At least he paid. At least she got full a written notice of what he’s really like. Maybe he was high on sugar.

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Well …. that escalated

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Hush Puppies are little fried pieces of cornmeal heaven right here on earth. Specially when dished alongside barbecue( not barbecued something, simply barbecue ), slaw, corn on the cob, collards, and pecan pie for dessert.

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If this was truly his lover how in the hell could he not know she was allergic ???

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on my cousin’s birthday, his wife sided him divorce articles. they were all wrapped up with a submit on top, in one of those containers that usually impound clothes.

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Poor server as well as the girlfriend.

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You worked at a boasts rail. Meaning no disrespect to athletics forbids, but … anyone who thinks that’s a situate for a nostalgic dinner is now a divorce waiting to happen.

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“Can’t have it on my work PC, duh! “

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IDK, I find myself being mad at the partner for tipping $40 for a inadequately extended advertising. I’d have been ferocious extremely. The least they could have done is offer a rain check, unless it said something like “supplied are limited so come early” which some do.

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I’m sorry, but your friends are inexpensive assholes. That isn’t a “tradition”–that’s merely scummy

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Wow …. Just Wow. I can’t wrap my head around these entitled little idiots. I get it large-scale gaudy resounds are pretty. But I’d take true love and patriotism and food twisting affiliation over a flashy ring and a loveless crappy wedlock. If you can get both great. But just because someone can’t afford a multi thousand dollar echoing doesn’t mean they aren’t worthwhile. smh

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I think we’re missing some info here … is he a widower? Divorced?

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I will get angry and forestalled when “theres no reason” for bad busines or long wait times. If we go out on a holiday, like Valentine’s Day, I don’t get upset because the waitstaff are already devastated and frantic. Those are the times I’m calm to keep them calm. I’ve been in the service industry. I recognize when a situation is bad service from being overwhelmed and when it’s bad work from staff that have just given up on trying. And known better if I look a server or hostess that is overwhelmed and you’re being nasty to them…I will call you out and wrecking your period further.

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23′ Unmasculine’ Thoughts That Women Actually Find Really Attractive In Men

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Hey. In no way am I saying that any of these the situation is NOT masculine. I’m just trying to point out that culture can make it feel like “theres” men’s roles and there are women’s roles, and the two cannot overlap in any way. And that’s stupid. So here’s some stereotypically’ unmasculine’ trash that dames actually vastly appreciate about followers .
1 . When something makes a guy chuckle so difficult that he genuinely, actually giggles. 2 . Or when he gets so excited about something that he makes out certain kinds of surprising high-pitched noise.

3. When he has incredibly neat, clean handwriting.

4. Or he was able to write in perfect, beautiful cursive.

5. When he gets really silly and playful around kids.

6. Or puppies.

7. When he places a lot of endeavor into creating a musing, homemade gift for you.

8. When he cooks and gets really into it.

9. Or if he’s one hell of a baker. No dame has ever been upset by a male who makes a good pie.

10. When he’s not humiliated to get upset, or even calls, in front of you.

11. And when he’s not embarrassed to molt joyous rips in front of you either especially when the moment was nice and so honest that it nearly kills you.

12. When he has a chamber that is clean and well-kept.

13 . Bonus qualities if it’s actually decorated delicately and he has a real, grownup bed frame. 14 . When he openly admits to being insecure about something.

15. When he’s well-groomed.

16 . And he exploits actual nail clippers to trim his fingernails and toenails because he’s not GROSS.

17. When he wears glasses. And not the refrigerate, hip, black-framed hipster style. We’re talking the skinny, exclusively functional ones.

18. Cardigans? Step right up.

19. When he has a really good singing voice.

20. Even if it’s falsetto. Because as JT taught us, falsetto can be sexy.

21. When he finally grants in and watches The Bachelor with you.

22. And then admits that it’s a super fascinating show.

23. When he greatly appraises the advice of the women in his life( you, his momma, his sisters, his pals, etc ), because he understands that women are his equals and that respecting them, listening to them, and learning from them does not oblige him any less of a husband. This one isn’t even close to being’ unmasculine .’ I exactly set it in here because I wanted to. Thanks bye.

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