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30 Valentine’s Day Disasters As Seen By Waiters

Ah, Valentine’s Day! Supposedly the most romantic day of its first year. However, it drops a whole bunch of stress on our shoulders. Even if we feign we’re above all the consumerism, promotion, and cheesiness. It’s also one the most disaster-prone days of the year, as spate attendants who have assured these disasters firsthand can attest to.

Reddit user Hamsternoir turned to the online community and asked attendants to share these floors firsthand. We bring you some of the very best responses that they are able to attain you chuckle, squirm, and might even help you forestalled a peril or two. Scroll down, enjoy Bored Panda’s interrogation with Hamsternoir, upvote your fave Valentine’s Day calamity legends, and share your own if you have any.

Oh, and check out Bored Panda’s other Valentine’s Day-related berths about design fails, honest cards for unconventional romantics, and what happened when women expected out their mashes.

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I’m not crying! I’m sweating through my sees !!!

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This is a cute story. Having to go somewhere “fancy” on Valentines day is not necessary in my opinion. As long as both parties enjoy one another company, the nutrient, etc, anywhere can be a special for Valentine’s day. Wow, that owner IS a scumbag. Kudos to that awesome server for moving over and above to clear that a rightfully special darknes for the couple.

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Ugh!

According to Hamsternoir, they’d been talking to their other half about some bad Valentine’s day know-hows in the past and this inspired them to turn to Reddit and hear everyone else’s narrations. “Never thought it would take off the room it did, but clearly there’s a lot of legends needing to be told.”

According to the redditor, “Valentine’s Day has always made duets under pressure, especially if the relationship is young.”

“Now, with social media, the pressure to perform seems even higher with people watching, ” they added, spotlight that the pressure to do nostalgic things on Valentine’s day and to discuss the matter with everyone on the internet is bigger now than before. In other statements, when we hear _everybody_ going nuts about Valentine’s Day on social media, we can’t help but want to follow the crowd. It’s a very human instinct.

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Poor guy , no one deserves to have their hopes mashed like that. Kudos to you for being a friend in such dark hour! 😀

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you dogded a missile there!

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Yikes…

Hamsternoir told Bored Panda that there are some things that pairs going on their first year on Valentine’s Day can do to reduce the pressure and to manage their expectations. “Don’t take things too seriously or expect the time to go as it was planned in your head.”

“It’s probably better only getting pizza and a bottle of something and then go out for a appointment that has personal sense like your wedding anniversary, it’ll be cheaper unless you got married on February 14 th! ” Those are some words of knowledge! It’s always better to have lower expectancies and pointing up agreeably stunned than being hyped up and crashing down.

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Free liquors where afforded. – Now that is a happy resolving!

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That happened to my husband with his boss many years ago. They were is necessary to stay in a inn for business and had dinner there that night … valentine’s night. Roses and candles everywhere – though they diminished the waiter’s invitation to illumination the candle on their table.

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A full-on Adult Temper Tantrum

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Meanwhile, PsychCentral has some extra bits of advice for Valentine’s Day. It’s vital that both partners have similar possibilities for this day: if one of you’s crazily in love while the other is just starting to open up, you’re both at different stages of the relationship.

What’s more, you shouldn’t expect your partner to be a completely different person merely because it’s Valentine’s Day. Oh, and if you plan to propose on February the 14 th, stir _absolutely_ sure that they’ll say “yes.” Otherwise, you’ll ruin all Valentine’s Days to come for yourself.

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A greedy man who endangers your life isn’t worth sticking around for. I hope she saw sense and dumped him.

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Uh, yuck. But then again, you can probably safely assume that strong feelings are involved if a guy is THAT anxious.

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What a jerk.

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why would you ask for the same waiter from the time “youve had” with your occasion ?!

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Fine Dining and Chili’s, two terms that should never be used together.

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Wow.

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and?

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GM was a moron. The amount of money they lost by not turning the table was at least as much as they would have lost on a walkout.

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These kind of good gal/ person narrations get lost here near the end, but this was a very kind story.

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Noice dude

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Oh I would’ve affection to pick up that phone call. No Ma’am he’s not out on business he’s actually in prisons for domestic violence. No ma’am not you … his girlfriend. And you’re welcome.”

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Years back, I speak of a gentleman who consume millions of dollars on telephone fornication, then finally influenced the woman to go on a time. To his breathe offend, she told him off. “Then why did she say all those things to me? ” he asked.

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While he nailed the disembark, his form was off — that’ll be at least. 20 off his tally from the reviewers and will cost him the gold medal

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Plot twist: OP is Hannah

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The guy was lucky that the girl didn’t pour the coffee on his head.

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note to myself: never ask the important questions before the dessert 😀

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omg, they’re so young … they have no idea what they want at that age >: -(

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Erm, you forgot to explain why you placed your “hairs-breadth” on fire.

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SO … did she say yes?

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why risking this sh* t? just go on a year with your spouse on v-day? don’t have a f* cking affai in the first place ofc. what do these husband see?( i suspect good-for-nothing …)

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I guess fate wanted them to be together…

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Why the blaze would “youre planning to” a fancy valentine’s dinner only to break up with person? Break-ups are uncomfortable enough by nature, so why would you purposely got something that sets the high expectations for the future of the relationship extra high?

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ouch!

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Good on the owner for being a stand-up guy, good on the poor guy for being a good tipper. May karma find and bless you both.

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I had to look up what a predict reverberating was. It’s basically an involvement to an engagement, is that right?

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had to read that one a few times to get it

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abusive Relationship … i am looking forward to he run from her

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That ending lmao

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that’s awkward

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This is starting to make me sad. Having your trust broken like that, plus your heart. And the teens who gotta identify their mother crying because their own father was an egocentric jerk.

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At least he sacrifices good tips

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That is so gross I don’t know what to say.

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Eww

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It’s crazy how two ppl in the same relationship has completely different knows. One is ready to marry the other while…the other person couldn’t imagine spending the remaining day with the other…sad.

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WHY WOULD YOU TELL SOMEONE THAT YOU DISLOCATED YOUR SHOULDER THAT WAY? “Slipped in the shower” is PLENTY of information. Likewise, there are still few dick moves more dick move than preventing the ring after a accepted proposition. There are cases when you keep the right, sure — if you’re breaking off an engagement because the other person did something REALLY bad, there’s an disagreement that the ring remains yours; same with wedding sounds. If the other person is at fault, some people claim that you keep the ring as a consolation pillage. I don’t know if I agree or not, but I respect its own position. But NOBODY says it’s okay to keep the ring WITHOUT the engagement.

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That is horrifying.

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Took 5 hours to figure out she’s a no show, I would have figured it out after 30 minutes.

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When an addiction is adversely affecting your life, on all the bio-psycho-social heights, you are no longer in control of it; it’s in control of you. It’s obviously time to seek outside professional help.

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Wow. That being said … stress makes people do strange things, and knows that restaurants are stupidly traumatic. I hope the cook is ok now.

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that sucks: I

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Probably a red-hot glass straight-shooting from dish because it was a busy night. Then putting a frozen boozing it can split the glass for whatever reason. It used to happen a lot when I waited tables and bartended. We would be expected to threw frost in the glass to cool it down before including the drink.

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Can’t believe he blamed you.

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Geez. I don’t know how people in the restaurant keep their composure during instants like this.

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Great that she told her.

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I truly hope she intent its relation with him.

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Well alright…

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Ban him instead.

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Well, that’s embarrassing.

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Even person with zero meat work knowledge would know not to ask a couple on V date whether the check is separate or together. She was nuts, but you mostly asked to provide it.

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“ceiling water” lol!

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At least he paid. At least she got full a written notice of what he’s really like. Maybe he was high on sugar.

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Well …. that escalated

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Hush Puppies are little fried pieces of cornmeal heaven right here on earth. Specially when dished alongside barbecue( not barbecued something, simply barbecue ), slaw, corn on the cob, collards, and pecan pie for dessert.

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If this was truly his lover how in the hell could he not know she was allergic ???

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on my cousin’s birthday, his wife sided him divorce articles. they were all wrapped up with a submit on top, in one of those containers that usually impound clothes.

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Poor server as well as the girlfriend.

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You worked at a boasts rail. Meaning no disrespect to athletics forbids, but … anyone who thinks that’s a situate for a nostalgic dinner is now a divorce waiting to happen.

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“Can’t have it on my work PC, duh! “

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IDK, I find myself being mad at the partner for tipping $40 for a inadequately extended advertising. I’d have been ferocious extremely. The least they could have done is offer a rain check, unless it said something like “supplied are limited so come early” which some do.

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I’m sorry, but your friends are inexpensive assholes. That isn’t a “tradition”–that’s merely scummy

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Wow …. Just Wow. I can’t wrap my head around these entitled little idiots. I get it large-scale gaudy resounds are pretty. But I’d take true love and patriotism and food twisting affiliation over a flashy ring and a loveless crappy wedlock. If you can get both great. But just because someone can’t afford a multi thousand dollar echoing doesn’t mean they aren’t worthwhile. smh

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I think we’re missing some info here … is he a widower? Divorced?

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I will get angry and forestalled when “theres no reason” for bad busines or long wait times. If we go out on a holiday, like Valentine’s Day, I don’t get upset because the waitstaff are already devastated and frantic. Those are the times I’m calm to keep them calm. I’ve been in the service industry. I recognize when a situation is bad service from being overwhelmed and when it’s bad work from staff that have just given up on trying. And known better if I look a server or hostess that is overwhelmed and you’re being nasty to them…I will call you out and wrecking your period further.

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5 Surefire Channel To Tell Your Partner Really Does Love You

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For some reason, I can never actually tell if a guy enjoys me.

I need him to practically spell it out for me, like when super sexysports physician Robert established Miranda a cookie patty that spoke I love you in.

Granted, she freaked out and ate the cakeall in one sitting, but at the least she knew her BFwas in love with her.

Sometimes, in a relationship, its hard to distinguish between like and adore. SoI questioned affair expertsJen Kirschand Mark Stefanishynaboutfive surefire ways to tell if your collaborator loves you , no matter what.

He flatteries you on the small details.

Its not all about extravagant gestures. Its actually the small things that will let you know your partnercares and is really paying attention.

Instead of growing laser-focused on the I love yous, she should listen to the other flatteries he returns her. The more specific they are, the more she can be sure he truly cherishes her, Stefanishyn tells Elite Daily.

And its not just your boyfriend saying you have neat blue sees or that he likes the behavior you dress. Itshould beindicators that your boo is gushing over the things that you do.

Stefanishyn lends,

So he might say something like when you get giggly, your nose does this cute little scrunchy stuff or I like how you have a specific awww thats reserved only for puppies who are smaller than 6 pounds or you always nuzzle your cheek into my chest twice and then sigh when I give you a hug.

For many servicemen, vulnerability is unnerving. Your guy may not wantto be made recreation of by his sidekicks for spurting over you or posting too many cute images on Instagram.

However, the more he points out these interesting thing, the more hes ended the adoration he find outweighs the fear that would help him prevent his interval, Stefanishynexplains.


He gives you his time.

If a person loves you, you dont have to beg him to hang out, have hopes, or sleep over.

Whether he travels for study, wields 40+ hours a few weeks, or has a requiring undertaking, the man that loves you gives you his available time. Hes falling asleep with you at night and wants you around whenever hes available, Kirsch tells Elite Daily.

However, he also knows the best interests of the your time and letting you have your own hobbies.

He likewise stirs the same effort to come to you, as well as honoring your need for personal cavity. He doesnt suffocate you or take it personally if you miss a girls night. Instead, he cant wait to hear all about it the next day, she continues.


He doesnt croak MIA.

Basically, a guy who loves you never leaves you on read.Otherwise, you might be dealing with a forced, one-sided relationship.

He always writes back/ answers/ picks up your sees when you reach out, and he contacts out just as much as you. The communication is equal, and he never stone-walls you, Kirsch explains.


He can read your mind.

A guy who loves youpredicts your wants and needs and tend to[ them] before being asked, Kirsch explains.

Im not saying you should year a psychic( although, that seems kind of recreation ), but you are able to time someone who can apprehend your desires, and is willing to cater to them.

Whether its prepping you a little snack before you head out for dinner because he knows you get hangry, or coming outside with a covering and tea for you( how you like it) when youre outside reading and the sunbathe starts to go down, hes attentive and spectacles activities that present he pays attention, she continues.

According to Kirsch, it all steams down to dating a human who wants you to be happy and who shows that with actions.


Heinvolves you in his life.

This means youre his plus-one for life, youve matched his acquaintances, and you know his parents.

Is there anything worse than being excluded from your guys social life, only to find out through[ social media] everyone else had their partners present? Kirsch asks.

No, theres not. And thanks to social media, has become a private investigator into what your boyfriend excludes you from can literally be a full-time job.

The guy that loves you wants you by his side to share instants with you and to create reminiscences with you, Kirsch clarifies. If hes into you, hes inviting you.

So if you have these five tones in your relationship, then your collaborator possibly loves you , no matter what.

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This Girl Who Matched With A Dog On Tinder Has More Luck With Dating Apps Than You

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I was never really big on the dating app scene.

I felt like the whole process was sort of dehumanizing. To me, itfelt weird evaluating a batch of real, multifaceted human beings based on a few blurry draws and a two-line bio.

That being said, I guess I perhaps wouldnt find even worse about dehumanizing competitors if I was swiping right for the purposes of an ANIMAL.( Get it? Because you cant dehumanize something thats not HUMAN .)

In fact, Id maybe be jolly affected by a puppy that canwrite a two-line bio.

Well in an ideal, mystical define of circumstances, a woman managed to bypass all the mind-numbing, boring human interactions on Tinderand parallel with an adorable hound reputation Spencer.

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Can you say BABE ALERT?

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, Spencersbio cant be anything more than Woof. Bork. Sniffles. because HES A DOG. HE CANT TALK, DUH.


But hestand, so hes literally the total package.

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What an complete young lad he is.


Once the womanmatched with the puppy, they naturally started chatting.

Lets just say happenings went super serious.

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So what we have here is a socially self-conscious dog with a Tinder profile? INTERESTING. VERY INTERESTING.

Honestly, Id say hes still better than a lot of the actual humen on Tinder.

The woman shared her match on Imgur, and patently, parties had fortunes to say about the canines profile 😛 TAGEND

This person is all about the cute plot move this bird-dogs plucking here.

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This provoked a longcomment weave of parties bickering overwhether or notthe plot was true.Meanwhile, Im sitting there like, YOU GUYS, A WOMAN MATCHED WITH A ON TINDER. WERE MISSING THE POINT HERE.


These beings had a bigger sentiment in mind.

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Seriously, how does a domesticated following Tinder not exist already? OK, TO BE FAIR, I havent actually looked into it. Itexist, but I just dont feel like googlingit right now. SUE ME.


And “womens issues” reaction was way too real for online daters.

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Yeah, a dog turning into a human is MUCH more of a scarcity than a human turning into a puppy, especially intheworld of online dating.

Can I get an AMEN?

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